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Saying “No” Is Harder Than We Think: Implications for Compliance and Consent
Talks at Twelve
Saying “No” is hard. By refusing a request—e.g., a request for help, a romantic advance—one risks offending and embarrassing the requester. Consequently, people regularly agree to things—even things they would rather not do—to avoid the discomfort of saying “no.” Yet when we do not ourselves face the immediate prospect of saying “no,” we discount the power of these concerns. Bohns will demonstrate how this tendency to underestimate the ways in which discomfort drives compliance leads people to underestimate whether people will agree to their requests, and view compliance as more voluntary than targets experience it. These findings have important implications for determining whether someone has voluntarily consented to a request (e.g., a sexual proposition, or police search request) or merely complied.
Vanessa Bohns received her PhD in social psychology from Columbia University and her BA in psychology from Brown University. Prior to joining Cornell, she taught at the University of Toronto and the University of Waterloo in Canada. Her research focuses broadly on social influence and the psychology of compliance and consent. In particular, she examines the extent to which people recognize the influence they have over others in various interpersonal interactions, including when asking for help, encouraging one’s peers to engage in questionable behaviors and making romantic advances. Some of her additional research interests include prosocial behavior, perspective-taking and self-conscious emotions. She is an associate editor at the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, was previously editor of the social influence section of Social and Personality Psychology Compass and sits on the editorial boards of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology and Social Cognition.
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